Why do some women hold out for so little? Have you heard tearful stories from women who continue to "relationship prospect" from men having no interest in a relationship?
Well, I think passive expectations is the reason and the problem. Ladies, I have been divorced for many years and would be the first to tell everyone that it is difficult being single and looking. As a matter of fact, I was so discouraged with the "dating dance" that I took a seven year timeout just to make sure I was strong enough for the games.
Don't write me off as eccentric or nutty. Taking time away allowed me to refine my personal worth and clarify exactly what I didn't have in my life already. I believe that we (women) often look at men (relationships) as what we should have in our life, and what will make us content and happy.
We must stop wasting time with involvements that don't have the elements for success. Be honest, does this person have the character and attributes that will compliment your life. Ask questions. Measure responses. Are your feelings safe and valued? Simply put, you can not be passive about what is expected from the people in your life. Whether it is respect from your children, or fidelity in your lover, you have the responsibility for ensuring how you are treated and the happiness you can expect.
